11 – Pulling Hair. There’s a Right Way & a Wrong Way
Bring an attentiveness to every step of this process.
There is a certain level of advanced dominance with this game. Generally speaking, to get the right effect, you must have the right foundation set first. She must be able to trust in you enough to *want* to let go and surrender to you.
Listen to her. Not just her words, but her body language. This is not something to force, but rather to entice her desire to want more.